Love is what we all have in common. It binds us together. Love is the breathe of life and it gives all living things hope and chance to be alive.
Our creator, God, gaved us his most wonderful present - the gift of choice or the freedom to choose. Choice is an essential part of life. A simple yet very powerful act of free will.
Free will to choose to love or not.
This is considered as a privilege given to oneself, so if you love someone, you should know that he got it with him too. Both of you have the right to choose. Never try to manipulate love, it will not workout. It will just make the two party unhappy.
If you only love someone because he can give you what you need or want, you are not inlove, you are selfish. When you are inlove, there is giving and sharing. There will always be a place of overflow rather than lack.
Learn to respect your love one. It can be devastating sometimes but can also be truly rewarding. When a person decide on his own free will and it is not what you desire, try to understand. Understanding and honoring someones choice shows respect and love at the same time.
Love is letting someone be himself because you will not feel loved when you are being controlled or manipulated. Letting someone be himself will show his true identity. It will help you know each others true personality. There will be trust then contentment and happiness.
Attract this kind of person, someone who will let you have your freedom of choice and do the same with him. Then there will be love...
Above is one of the essay samples I’ve written on complexity of love. Writing essay is not an easy task but can be fulfilling if written with a heart...