God orders our steps. He opens the door for us to lead our life(free will). Therefore if you are in control of what happens you should not allow others to hurt you or bruise your spirit. I say this all the time *there is always something to be happy about* and it's the truth. Be happy no matter what.
**If your boyfriend or girlfriend cheats on you...guess what?...He/She didnt and doesnt love you so pick up the pieces of your heart and continue to love yourself. If you do not have sexual self control (remain abstinent), this means you are meant to marry and God WILL send you the person you are meant to be with.
**If you lose your job.....guess what?... apply yourself, get better skils, learn more education techniques to better yourself and find a job!!! Go to school! Do something.
**If you lose a relative....guess what?....they are no longer in pain and GOD allowed us to have memories to cherish and love. Be greatful that you were able to live life with them. Living on Earth is only temporary. We all have to leave one day.
**If you want a better life, but you feel stuck in this one place....guess what?... get up and change that. Find somewhere to move, find a job, pray...do what you have to do.
People this day tend to allow others to help them be happy when happiness starts from self love, self worth, self respect, self loyalty......... SELF. Happiness starts from within. You cant expect others to help you be happy without being happy as just ONE person (SELF). You cant allow someone to ruin your mood or ruin your day etc. Just bless them and look within. Find that peace within yourself and stick with that. People that you encounter with throughout life should cope around your being. They should fit it with you. If everyone love themselves fully, we all maybe able to live happily with one another.
I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I havelearned the secret of being content in any and every situation,whether well fed or hungry,whether living in plenty or in want.