One recent observation of mine is that once communication stops, trouble soon ensues!!! And your local shrink, you must of paid him high buck to get you talking!!! And trouble between husband and wife, mother and daughter, father and son, and boss and employee, soon follows when we are not making each other clear to each other!!!
We must warn what lines not to cross and convey words of comfort with the situation calls for is!!! Let open the bible to John 4,
["...When therefore the Lord knew how the Pharisees had heard that Jesus made and baptized more disciples than John,
2(Though Jesus himself baptized not, but his disciples,)
3He left Judaea, and departed again into Galilee.
4And he must needs go through Samaria.
5Then cometh he to a city of Samaria, which is called Sychar, near to the parcel of ground that Jacob gave to his son Joseph.
6Now Jacob's well was there. Jesus therefore, being wearied with his journey, sat thus on the well: and it was about the sixth hour.
7There cometh a woman of Samaria to draw water: Jesus saith unto her, Give me to drink.
8(For his disciples were gone away unto the city to buy meat.)
9Then saith the woman of Samaria unto him, How is it that thou, being a Jew, askest drink of me, which am a woman of Samaria? for the Jews have no dealings with the Samaritans.
10Jesus answered and said unto her, If thou knewest the gift of God, and who it is that saith to thee, Give me to drink; thou wouldest have asked of him, and he would have given thee living water..."]
Now here Jesus crossed the boundry lines and and gender line and perhaps the holiness line!!! But God knew that a candid conversation can open the door to big things. When God saw the darkness over the face of the waters, He Spoke, and said let there be light!!! Now God could of just wished for it and thought about it and meditatate about it!!! No!!! God spoke and it was so!!!
In the big-band theory, the universe suddenly come into existence and no one says a thing, rightly so, no one is there in that theory!!! In creation God is there from eternity past to etenity future and still today he speaks to us in many ways, mainly reminding us of his spoken, and then written word to be spoke again and again!!!
But the good habit of speaking to each other and remindind our spouse that they are not alone, and telling the same to our children and even a passer-by down the street like Jesus with the woman at the well can turn the day around for them and for us too, because God reward a kind gesture, even a casual hello how are you???!!!
But we must pray and escape this self love and self obsorvedness that is covering the whole world in love with itself!!! It is a form of world autism where nobody exist but your own self!!! Please pray that we learn to greet each other and say hello for our own good!!!