I read before that most of today's Christians think and act like the world. But according to apostle Paul which he wrote in Romans 12:2 that our minds should be renewed. So how can our minds be renewed ? Answer : through the Holy Spirit.
There was a saying: when in Rome do what the Romans do. This is same as when in the world do what the world does. But Christians are in the world but not of the world. So what should Christians do ?
First Christians are to read the Bible.I have been reading the Bible already but seems it does not get old it is always fresh.
Now if you have been a Christian for a long time but still experiencing difficulty then probably thinking eternity will help you focus on more important matters.
Will try to share ideas with you as they come along.
Before we separate for now i remember this thought abour prayer. Prayer does not change God but prayer changes us.