In our times of grief, loss, sorrow, pain, death, disaster etc. we may be tempted to ask "where is God ?"
Maybe we should ask where are we when Jesus was fighting for our souls at the cross,while Jesus was in tremendous pain and anguish etc. A battle He fought victoriously so that we may have life and have it more abundantly. Since Jesus experienced that death, we too may have to experience a much lesser degree of that which are nothing to be compared to His suffering.
Let's remember the words of our Lord, in the world you shall have tribulation but be of good cheer I (Jesus ) has overcome the world.