I was having my own pity party and i was getting miserable. So again i prayed, search the Bible for answers and let us see what the Bible says.
In 2 Corinthians 4:7-10 we see..
But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us.
We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted , but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed--always carrying about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body.
We see here even apostle Paul suffered or having troubles. You maybe saying our troubles are nothing compared with apostle Paul and you are right but what does it mean if we are encountering our own troubles ?
Perhaps God is bringing us to another level. The enemy may have come up with another attack that we need to raise our level through God's help.
We know the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, meekness and self control.
With this fruit perhaps we need to learn to forgive and obey. Be content and to share, do whatever God is telling us.