I am happy to be a part of this group. My name is Naomi and I am in the middle of going through this myself as the Lord has opened the eyes of me and my husban...d Eric who was married once before me. We have gone back and forth so much on this issue, but always seem to come back to the fact that we are in adultery. It is very difficult to leave someone that you have an amazing marriage with, but the longer we have remained together after being shown this truth, the farther away we have drifted from the Lord, like as if he has removed his presence from us. I have a couple Christian family members who have tried to "soothe" me with the same old arguments (they happen to be divorced and remarried themselves) so it has been hard. Plus, basically everyone we know thinks that we are nuts for thinking this, so it has been really trying and confusing on so many levels. I seem to be the most at peace when I am resting in the fact that this is the truth. When I start to go back to thinking that "well maybe it's okay somehow..." that is when I begin to be in such confusion. Anyway, we are in the process of finding another living situation for me and what not, and I am so scared because I am 29 years old and have always had a man taking care of me. But this life is the trial of our faith, so my faith is just being tried and tested right now. If I step out in faith I know the Lord will be there to take care of me and provide for me. So I'm just asking for prayer support from the brethren here for strength, courage and direction. Thanks for reading and Jesus Bless you all. I am being blessed and encouraged by all the testimonies. Thank you Sharon Henry and Alisha Brewer Nelson.