John 15:7: “If you remain in meand my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.”
So, how do we get from the Lord what we want? Is it by stubbornly claiming what we want? By trying very hard? By not giving up? No. We get what we wish by when we remain in His words. By doing that we align ourselves to his will and this changes our thoughts, emotions, words and finally actions. And yes, it changes our prayer too. We become able to pray according to His perfect will. And He likes and answers these kind of prayers. Bless God!