James 3:16 says, “For where envying and strife is, there isconfusion and every evil work.”
As women we can tend to hold grudges and as the World says, “Hell has no fury like a woman scorned.” However, God created us to be gentle and loving. When we start fighting with others, we allow the devil to step in and have his way in our lives and block the very thing we are believing God for. When we feel hurt or betrayed it can affect us emotionally if we don’t get a hold of ourselves and make ourselves forgive those who hurt us, especially if it is someone who is gossiping about us. Remember that God is the One who justifies us. Let Him fight your battle for you.
Proverbs 26:4 “Don’t answer the arguments of fools, or you will become as foolish as they are.”